Jumaat, 4 Mac 2011

Apakah Yang Dirasakan Lelaki Ketika Orgasme (18sx)



Banyak perempuan yang sangat menikmati ekspresi pasangannya ketika sedang orgasme. Kenapa ya, ekspresi lelaki lepas dengan mudah? Apa yang sebenarnya mereka rasakan ketika sedang mencapai puncak? Apakah sensasinya berbeda dengan kita alami?

Orgasme pada lelaki sebenarnya lebih pendek durasinya dibandingkan perempuan, namun lebih intens, dan biasanya hanya dialami satu kali dalam satu sesi. Sedangkan perempuan, jika mendapat stimulasi, boleh mengalami multiorgasme dengan masa pemulihan yang lebih singkat.

Ketika sedang mencapai klimaks, lelaki melepaskan dorongan hormon yang membuatnya mengantuk, seperti norepinephrine, serotonin, oksitosin, vasopresin, nictric oxide, dan prolaktin. Hal ini menyebabkan lelaki nyaris tidak mungkin tidak merasa mengantuk selepas bercinta (jangan heran lelaki langsung tertidur setelah itu).

Apa yang dirasakan pria ketika orgasme, simak pengakuan dari empat lelaki:

1. Otak membeku, lalu segala sesuatu menjadi jernih
Andrew (30), seorang programmer komputer, mengatakan bahwa selama berhubungan seks ia merasa seperti berada dalam keadaan trance, atau tak sadarkan diri. Secara fisik dirinya ada di sana, tetapi alam pikirannya berkelana ke dalam sensasi kenikmatan. Namun, semuanya terjadi sebentar saja, dan sulit dijelaskan seperti halnya ketika orgasme.

"Setelah itu segala sesuatu jadi masuk akal selama beberapa detik saja. Seolah saya boleh melihat segala sesuatu dengan jelas untuk pertama kalinya. Buat saya itulah hal paling hebat tentang orgasme, yaitu momen sesudahnya," kata Andrew.

2. Mengirimkan energi kepada pasangan
Orgasme lelaki juga adalah berbeda sensasinya, misalnya apakah dilakukan melalui masturbasi atau dengan pasangan, demikian menurut Adam (27), desainer set. Masturbasi baginya tidak harus sampai orgasme, tetapi ketika melakukan hubungan seks dengan pasangan, sensasinya nyaris bersifat spiritual.

"Saya merasa seperti mengirimkan inti dari jiwa saya kepada seseorang," katanya. "Rasanya seperti berkongsi energi dengan seseorang. Dalam posisi begitu dekat dengan seseorang membuat kita berada dalam periode yang sangat rapuh."

3. Intensitasnya bervariasi, tergantung berapa lama ia bertahan
Orgasme yang paling intens, menurut Paul (23), seorang aktor, terjadi setelah ia mencapai batasnya, dan bertahan beberapa saat. "Beda rasanya ketika hanya membiarkan diri Anda lepas ketika terjadi dorongan pertama, atau mencoba mempertahankan perasaan itu. Saya merasa jutaan kali lebih penat setelah saya berhenti, daripada tetap melanjutkannya," paparnya.
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4. Sensasi pada perempuan lebih lama, dan mungkin lebih baik
Willy (26), copywriter di perusahaan advertising, mengakui bahwa ogasme pada lelaki memang lebih singkat daripada orgasme pada perempuan. Sensasinya juga tidak terlalu eforik. "Pasangan saya tampaknya mengalami orgasmenya dalam gelombang yang lambat. Lelaki tidak seperti itu. Kami mengalami dorongan yang sangat intens selama 3-5 detik kedua, kemudian seluruh tubuh kami seperti mati rasa. Rasanya menyenangkan, tapi kayaknya yang dialami perempuan lebih baik," ujarnya.

http://female.kompas.com/read/2011/03/03/17530278/yang.dirasakan.pria.ketika.orgasme

http://www.yourtango.com/201063990/what-male-orgasm-feels


What A Male Orgasm Feels Like

Ever wondered what a male orgasm is like? Four men tell us ladies what it feels like to get off.

So what does a male orgasm feel like? Do orgasms differ drastically between the sexes? On our search to find out what exactly goes on in a man's head and body during sex, we first examined what we already know:

For starters, the male orgasm is significantly shorter, more intense and can, usually, only be experienced once during a single sex session. Women on the flipside, if properly stimulated, can pop out a series of orgasms with little recovery period. Secondly, the male orgasm unleashes a rush of drowsy hormones—norepinephrine, serotonin, oxytocin, vasopressin, nictric oxide and the hormone prolactin—making it next to impossible for men not to feel sleepy after sex. The Hands-Free Orgasm

But what exactly does a male orgasm feel like, we wonder. To find out, we asked a few bonafide, penis-owning individuals if they could put it into words that coveted five seconds of orgasmic bliss. What we found? The question was downright hard. Asking men to explain the male orgasm was akin to having them describe the color orange. Regardless, we managed to cull a few truths. Click Here

1. The brain shuts off, and then a moment of clarity arises.

Andrew, a 30-year-old computer programmer said that during sex he's in a trance-like, robotic state. While he's physically there, his mind wanders into deep horny forests, that if asked about, are just as ephemeral and hard to explain as the orgasm itself, but after he comes? "Everything makes sense for a split second. Like I'm seeing things clearly for the first time. That to me is the most powerful thing about orgasm, the moments afterward." The Myth Of The Male Orgasm

2. It's feeling of passing "energy."

Adam a 27-year-old set designer says his orgasms are different depending on whether he's masturbating or having sex. Masturbation for him results in an orgasm out of necessity, but when he comes inside a woman he explains it as almost spiritual. "I feel like I'm passing the core of my soul to someone," he said. When we thought he couldn't be serious, he concluded, "not to be cheesy, but its like sharing your energy with somebody. Being so close to someone during a very vulnerable period."

3. The intensity varies depending on how long he holds out.

Paul, a 23-year-old actor says his most intense and earth shattering climaxes happen after he's reached the edge and held out a few times. "There's a differences between just letting loose when you first feel the urge and challenging yourself to hold out. I'm a million times more exhausted after I've stopped and kept going."


4. Women's are indeed longer—and possibly better.

Wes, a 26-year-old advertising copywriter, reiterates the already known fact that the male orgasm is inherently shorter than a female's. It also doesn't seem to be quite as euphoric. "My girlfriend seems to experience her orgasm in lingering waves. Ours isn't like that. We have a very intense 3-5 second burst, if that, and then our entire body goes numb. It feels good, but I get the feeling hers are better." The Female "Happy Ending" Massage



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